YOU are eliciting this response from him. After all, his hardon is a response to your presence.
There is yet another way to fall in love with your partner’s yogurt chucker and that is to understand how powerful his erection makes you. It’s not only about you, it’s for you.Ī Hard Dick Is Your Chance To Be In Control & Exert Dominance And soon you’re both sucked into a vortex of desire.īut what is the outer manifestation of his desire? His hard cock. He sees your excitement and gets more excited. It’s a sexualized electrical current with a feedback loop-he gets excited so you get excited. Knowing you can turn your partner on (look at that erection!) is the ultimate sexual compliment a statement of your desirability. I just love ’em so much.”Ī Hard Dick Is Proof That You’re DesirableĪ penis gets hard when its owner spies a beautiful, desirable guy. I would be permanently attached to a penis if I could. When you hold your partner’s erect penis you should (hopefully) be in awe of its strength and want to feel its masculine prowess in every part of your body. If you like a man for being a man, then it’s only natural to crave the symbol of his manhood. It epitomizes almost every aspect of masculinity: It’s big, thick, hard, strong, muscled, driven, and, it must be said, without conscience. It is not just the staff of life but the stuff of dreams. Few things can put your femininity in stark relief to masculinity more than a hard penis. It’s strong, it’s hard and it commands you to surrender. You are attracted to maleness, strength and virility and nothing personifies these traits more than the erect cock. Let’s take a look at some of those thoughts and why it would make sense to be turned on by giving a blowjob.Ī Hard Dick Is A Powerful Symbol of Something You Love: Masculinity Now there is a guy who’s in touch with his sexuality! How can you get closer to his sensibility? By getting in touch with why you like penis in the first place and letting those thoughts SWELL to huge proportions. I usually enjoy being quite submissive, but when I give a blowjob I’m the one doing all the work and controlling everything-he is surrendering his vulnerable manhood to my mouth, and I’m in control of it.” Blowjobs are an act where I’m in control. If I don’t think I can take a pounding at the moment, they’re a great way for me to still enjoy sexual contact.ĥ. Him being sexually stimulated is a huge mental turn-on for me-it doesn’t give me literal sexual stimulation, but it’s a big mental turn-on, and sex is half mental anyway.Ĥ. I can more directly control his pleasure. The feeling of his cock pulsing in my mouth as he gives me his load … None of the sensory stimulation of his cock is as heightened in the ass as in the mouth.ģ. I can see him, I can smell him, I can taste him, I can touch him with my hands, I can explore all of his contours and textures with my tongue, etc.
My face has much more heightened sensation than my ass. The epitome of his manhood is right there, right in front of me. Here’s one of my favorite testimonials by an extremely perceptive and articulate guy on Reddit:ġ. It starts by seeing proof that other “givers” are indeed turned on by blowjobs and not just because they like the effect it has on their men. So the question becomes, how do you start seeing blowjobs as vehicles to your own pleasure (the way your guy did in that memory of yours)? How can you start seeing it as a sex toy for your mouth? How do you get yourself to like blowjobs so much that you want to do it as much or more than your partner wants to have it? THAT’S what made him great and that’s what’s going to make you great at going down on your partner. You have that searing memory because he was a passionate lover who loved going down on you. But that would have just made him a talented laborer. Technique? Skills? Yes, I’m sure he was good, maybe even great. That guy who went down on you? He LOVED doing it, didn’t he? It wasn’t just that he was good at it, he L-O-V-E-D licking and kissing you, the taste of you, the everything of you. Let me make a few assertions about your memory of that session. What do you remember most-that thing he did with his tongue or the feeling of getting sucked into a vortex of sexual energy that made you temporarily forget your name? Think back to the most memorable oral sex a man has ever performed on YOU. You can have the best technique in the world but if you don’t see it as an avenue to satisfying your own sexual pleasure, you’ll just say things like, “Put it in my mouth, already. You simply cannot give good head unless you see it as a way of satisfying your own sexual needs. Want To Give Head Like The Guys In These Gifs? Excerpt From Book
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